From my point of view, I'm happy to stay after a game and chat (in fact, I was doing so on Sunday, then everyone left to go to the car park, but I was parked in the Ladysmith Road car park). I was definitely one of the last people at the ground, and usually am, either in the changing rooms (as was the case vs. Continental or at Hazelwood), or on the pitch if we don't change in the changing rooms.
Wednesday nights are more of an issue, as 10pm is pretty late, so I'd rather get there early and speak about stuff then, although since so many people struggle to make it there for 9pm, I'm not sure what chance we have really.