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Mel,
It sounds to me like you two are on a good track now, after the initial shock and sadness. I can sure recall those initial heartbreak feelings myself.
It's easy for us who have already walked this road to offer advice based on our own perceptions. But I don't think that's what you need. Now that you are finding your footing you'll surely use all your faculties to navigate the choices that lie ahead. I'll bet there will be some high moments and some low ones still to come.
As fellow travelers our warm feelings go with you.
Sorry to hear of your shock news, Mel, but as BillG says, it certainly seems that you are recovering well and that you will proceed at a speed you're comfortable with to make the decision that suits you.
Good luck and if there are any specific questions you'd like to raise, go ahead. The only dumb questions are those that are not asked - and none of us knew anything about our prostates at one time. we all had to learn:-)
I am in Southern California and had a robotic prostatectomy last September. My surgery was performed at the City of Hope by Dr. Mark Kawachi, and I had none of the common symptoms such as incontinence and erectile dysfunction. I attribute this to the number of surgeries that Dr. Kawachi has performed with the DiVinci robot. I had some excessive bleeding after surgery and developed anemia, however today after 11 months I am back to where I was physically pre-surgery without having experienced a single day ot the aforementioned side effects. As of today, I am cancer free and highly recommend the robotic surgery. Best of luck to you and your husband.
