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Re: Recently Diagnosed - Imagination Working Overtime?
Hi David,
I was driving past your neck off the woods a few days ago - we're practically neighbours (I'm close to Sunderland).
I have to agree with everything Ted said in his reply to you. It seems highly unlikely that your prognosis is going to be poor in any way.
Your numbers are low, and you should try your best to relax - don't panic. Take a look at the mentors pages here. I can guarantee you'll find cause for optimism.
Your MRI scan will give the accurate picture, so put it out of your mind till that's done, otherwise you're worrying needlessly.
Very best of luck - keep us posted on your progress,
Re: Recently Diagnosed - Imagination Working Overtime?
David:
The worst part of this journey is the current leg you are on................which is getting to a decision point of treatment no treatment. Unfortunately, you have been charged with charting your own course and like (most of) the rest of us on YANA we aren't Doctors but we are expected to "become a Doctor" to make the choice. I echo Ted's & George's words, the answers you seek are here on YANA in the survivor's stories. Take the time to try and match yourself up to a few Mentors and read and re-read their journeys, you will soon feel more comfortable and life won't seem as out of control.
Take care, and don't rush into anything.
Mike C (Canada)
Re: Recently Diagnosed - Imagination Working Overtime?
Thanks Mike,
I think I'm getting the message, and your words are consoling. I never dreamed it would be 'unspecified' as to what happens next, but as I'm a control freak, it's probably for the best. I'll happily take that responsibility, and will search out the relevant mentors here.
Thanks again.
