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Hi Pat,
If you feel uncomfortable answering questions directed to you, answer briefly, then ask questions about that person (who asked the question in the first place). If they and you can enter into a polite discussion, both give and listen, then perhaps you can provide more detail as you feel comfortable with sharing. If the conversation goes to other topics, then enough said about your health.
As we come out and away from our health issues, people generally want to hear that you are healing and trying to get back into a normal life (if that is at all possible). Give plenty of thanks for all the prayers, and if you are a member of a church, they are your family, and they just want to know that you are OK.
As I think back about some of my older friends, the ones I do not like to be around are still reliving their pain and still want you to share it with them.
Think about now, how good you feel, and share that with your friends.
Joe
