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Re: Tantric Sex

This is not quite on-topic but I thought I'd mention it. I've had ED for nearly two years and I'm still at castrate levels due to residual ADT. I've found that while I don't have the usual physical desire, there is another form of desire that I experience. I talked about this with a close female friend and I could see a light go on over her head. She repeated the common thought that men and women have different ideas about sex: men are mostly concerned with the physical aspects while women concentrate on the emotional. I have a type of desire that has nothing to do with the physical yet it is strong. It's hard to put it into words but she understood what I was getting at right away. I have the desire to be with a partner without the need to have an orgasm. As a result, I have a renewed concern for my appearance and desirability even though I cannot perform. Anyone else have these feelings?

Paul A, USA

Re: Re: Tantric Sex

Hi Paul,
Yes, my wife & I snuggle a lot before we sleep and after we wake up. It does come up but usually from a dream and it still is a bit painful. Last Lupron Depot shot was April 2, 2008, the injection sites still ach from over six months ago.
Joe

Re: Re: Re: Tantric Sex

I must have been lucky. My shots only hurt for 2 or 3 days. Sorry that you still hurt after all these months, Joe.

Paul, USA

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